Good bye to 2016

Is 30th of December 2016

36 hours more to 2017

“For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. 

There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. 

You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. 

We can make the best or the worst of it. 

I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. 

I hope you feel things you never felt before. 

I hope you meet people with a different point of view. 

I hope you live a life you’re proud of. 

If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start all over again.” 

或许时间不再，或许青春不再，或许环境不再；

时间不会停下脚步等待你的转变，它会不停行走，你愿不愿意都好，它会带走你的一切。

人世间有多少忧伤失望，挫折困难，都会过去；

当然甜美的时刻总是可以被保留成为一生中最美的回忆。

我们不能改变环境，但我们可以改变自己来迎合环境；

我们不能改变别人，但可以改变自己的想法来接纳他；

没有绝对，只有可能。

2017年你设定好自己的目标了吗？

不要再让时间带走一切，珍惜，感恩，惜福~

阿呆与你共勉之~~~~

Marriage ~~~

Well, "the time" is just around the corner,

Started getting nervous...

Let's see how good can it be?

Marriage is two person come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

Marriage is like watching the color of leaves in the fall; ever changing and more stunningly beautiful with each passing day.

Marriage is not a noun; it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get. It’s something you do. Its the way you love your partner every day.

Marriage is willingness to sacrifice for him / her no matter how hard or pain it is. And this is all about LOVE.

For me, marriage is not easy, especially when two persons with different backgrounds came into a relationship, and have to learn the way of "negotiation", sharing bed, bathroom, toilet paper and even A blanket.

But bear in mind that two is always better than one. Life become more interesting with the negotiations; Life become more joyful when someone is always ready to share your happiness and sadness; Life become blessed when someone care about your feeling.

That's her. She's kind of a walking poem, she's this perfect beauty...but at the same time very deep, very smart.

Love is sharing, Love is care, Love is mercy, and Love is everything.

『Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.』Corinthians 13:4-8

For everything in this journey of life we are on, there is a right wing and a left wing.

For the wing of love there is anger; for the wing of destiny there is fear; for the wing of pain there is healing; for the wing of hurt there is forgiveness; for the wing of pride there is humility; for the wing of giving there is taking; for the wing of tears there is joy; for the wing of rejection there is acceptance; for the wing of judgment there is grace; for the wing of honor there is shame; for the wing of letting go there is the wing of keeping.

We can only fly with two wings and two wings can only stay in the air if there is a balance.

Two beautiful wings is perfection.

2016年的第一天

很喜欢一句金典名言：

“如果你的人生没有计划，那么你就计划失败中”

『 If you fail to plan, then you are planing to fail.』

计划是人生中的重要环节，规划自己要走的路，为自己的前途铺上一条康庄大道，这想必是每个人的心愿～

我是一个非常容易受感触的人，所以我喜欢偶尔安静自己在一个没有人的角落，好好过往的成败，所谓：“前车之鉴，后事之师” 。我觉得失败或是过失并不会带来负面的影响，反之，它会是很大的推动力。只因为我很不服输！！哈哈哈～

有许多人说：

你我的人生有多少个岁月呢？

往往计划都赶不上变化，只因为地球也在转～

过去一年里的遗憾又有多少能重来呢？

或许过去的岁月里残留了许多的困惑和遗憾，但我个人认为这些所谓的遗憾是来之于有没有好好的”计划“。

计划人生，才能过得充实；

计划经济，才能运用自如；

计划现在，才能脚踏实地；

计划将来，才有目标奋斗。

没有人希望在人生画上句点的那一刻留下遗憾而离去～

虽然不是所有事情都能够称心如意，但至少规划了属于自己的人生～

你的人生由你自己安排，当中包含着信仰，亲情，友情，爱情，事业，梦想，理想，目标！

今天是2016年的第一天，你是否已经放下之前所有的眷恋和遗憾，计划自己的目标，规划自己的未来了呢？


盼望大家都能好好安静思考自己的目标，好好规划属于自己的未来～

阿呆与您共勉之～